Very late in the Act of the Apostles, a snake latches on to “prisoner Paul’s” hand and the natives of the island, say, “see he is deserving of death, that is why the snake bit him.”, but then he lives and they change their minds and worship him as a god... wrong again. Circumstances happen in life, right now, you are not married. Many can look and judge and say, “i know why it is because”... and you may even be doing that with yourself -- DON’T! In an instant of time God can change circumstances, we should never use them to judge ourselves or others.
Who you are does not change based on circumstances, period.